Thursday, June 14, 2012

"What Do You Do When The Bottom Falls?"


“3 So David and his men came to the city, and behold, it was burned with fire; and their wives, and their sons, and their daughters, were taken captive. 4 Then David and the people that were with him lifted up their voice and wept, until they had no more power to weep. 5 And David’s two wives were taken captives, Ahinoam the Jezreelitess, and Abigail the wife of Nabal the Carmelite. 6 And David was greatly distressed; for the people spake of stoning him, because the soul of all the people was grieved, and every man for his sons and daughters: but David encouraged himself in the Lord his God. 7 And David said to Abiathar the priest, Ahimelech’s son, I pray thee, bring me hither the ephod. And Abiathar brought thither the ephod to David. 8 And David enquired at the Lord…” (1st Samuel 30:3-8)

It’s not surprising that for 365 days life just happens…and when it happens it doesn’t discriminate. You come home from work one day, pink-slip in hand, pick up the television remote only to realize that the television is not working… and the reason it’s not working is because there is no electricity. Suddenly the phone rings; its little Billy’s school, seems he had an accident during recess and had to be rushed to the nearest hospital. You run out to the car only to see it being towed away by the repo-man. But not to worry, the phone rings again and your wife is on the other end letting you know that she’s already at the hospital with Billy; and although you can breathe easier  you can’t help but to worry just a little.

So you walk over to your favorite recliner to take a load off, but there’s a knock at the door. The gentleman on the other side identity’s himself and then hands you an envelope… your wife has just served you with divorce papers. That explains the thin look in the closets and both bedrooms, and you thought little Billy finally remembered not to leave his toys scattered all over the place. You reach for the phone and begin to dial your wife’s cell, but all you get is dead air space because just that quickly your services have been terminated.

No; this is not a calgone moment…you are in a state of Ziklag and everything in your life is heading south. You decide to walk to the neighborhood bar for a few drinks and end up closing the place. As you semi-stagger homeward the thought comes to mind to stop at the ATM.

No sooner than you withdraw your money some masked man whose name is not The Lone Ranger or Zorro puts a gun in your back and demands that you hand over all of your cash. You say to yourself; man I was gonna pay my best friend Jimmy back with that money. Wasted and dejected you head homeward.

As you draw near to your house you notice someone parked in the driveway. It’s Jimmy, your bosom buddy and life-long pal; he wants his money. You try and explain to him how you were just jacked at the ATM, but he’s not in the mood to listen because he’s in a financial jam and his wife is also threatening to leave him. Jimmy wants to fight; he warns that if you don’t have his money tomorrow there will be trouble and leaves you sitting on your front stoop with your head in your hands wondering what to do next….

In that moment you think you’ve hit rock bottom but truthfully speaking, the bottom has fallen.

This scenario or something similar has happened to all of us at one time or another. Even today someone’s mortgage has been foreclosed on, car repossessed, services discontinued, a loved-one hospitalized, the dog ran away and the cat was run over…society calls this “Murphy’s Law” meaning whatever can go wrong, will go wrong.

In society when the bottom falls it is customary to surrender to the circumstances. One popular solution is to drown yourself and your bottomless troubles in the alcoholic beverage of choice, or just fix it all with narcotics; some have even contemplated suicide. Neither of these solutions will rid you of the problem, in fact they will only lead to more bottom falling incidents.

When David hit rock-bottom he was at his wits end; family taken into captivity, and his buddies threatening to kill him because they followed him into the same situation. David could have taken matters into his own hand from the start, I mean the man had just cried until he couldn’t cry anymore, why not wield his sword against his own men and afterwards head out by himself to search for his family.

The real question here is; what would he have gained by pursuing that line of thinking? Better yet; why take matters into his own hand?

Proverbs 16:25 states – “There is a way that seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are ways of death…”

David did the proper thing; he sought the Lord for instruction.

One of the requests that Jesus taught his disciples to make when they pray was “give us this day our daily bread…” this should tell you God already knew about the dilemma that you are going through beforehand, but he’s waiting for your permission before he steps in to lead the way out.

“He’s a Gentleman”

More importantly, a relationship must be established between you and the Lord which moves you to trust that he’ll deliver you from all of your troubles. There is no time to fear what’s happened and there most certainly is no time to fear in man.

“The fear of man bringeth a snare; but whoso putteth his trust in the Lord shall be safe.” Proverbs 29:25

By seeking counsel from the Lord David was able to employ a strategy that allowed him and his men to pursue and destroy their enemy; and ultimately recover everyone and everything that was stolen from them.

Eventually all of us will experience those moments when the bottom falls. Life happens…. When it does you can cry until there are no more tears left. But the moment your tear-ducts dry up, that’s not the time to get high only to be brought low. “CALL ON THE LORD!”

 “Now unto him that is able to keep you from falling, and to present you faultless before the presence of his glory with exceeding joy; to the only wise God our Saviour, be glory and majesty, dominion and power, both now and forever. Amen.” Jude 1:24-25

Thank God for putting the floor back under your feet!

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